[mu5lim4h]

SALAM ALL U MUSLIM SISTERS AND BROTHERS!
I HAVE A ISSUE TO TEL U ABOUT SO U CAN HELP ME
MY BIG CUZ SIS WHO IZ 16 YRZ OF AGE SHE GOES ON MSN MESSENGER AND CHATROOMS. SHE TLKS 2 BOYZ! I DONT KNO HOW SHE DOES IT SHE DSNT EVEN CARE BOUT HER PARENTZ I TRY TO TELL HER HOW MUCH HURT AND SHAME THAT WILL BE BROUGHT UPON HER PARENTZ IF THEY EVER FIND OUT. ALL SHE SAYS IS THAT THEY DNT NEED 2 KNO BUT ONE DAY THEY WILL FIND OUT. SO I NEED HELP BCUZ SHE TLKS 2 A GUY AND THEY BOTH LOVE!! EACH OTHER I DONT KNO HOW CUZ THEY R COMMITIN A VERY BIG SIN AND SHE CLAIMS THAT THE GUY SHE CHATZ 2 IS HOLY! HOW CAN HE B HOLY WHEN HE IS COMMITING FORNIATION.
PLEEZ HELP ME CUZ ONE OF THESE DAYS SHE IS GOING TO GET CORRUPTED!

[Mercy-to-mankind]

why don't you just tell her wat she is doin,and the consequences of the afterlife

[mu5lim4h]

thank you iftkhar azam at least u understood wt i waz trying 2 say
NO AFFENCE YOUND LAD!

[young-brother]

Pray for her continuously

[Mystic]

Brother
Since you are younger than her, i know you don't have too much power. Therefore, give her a warning, and then finally go and tell your parents everything. This guy who talks to you sister on msn, claims he is religous, however, nobody religious would waste time chatting on msn. Therefore, the best thing for you to do is, inform your parents on what is going on. If you tell your parents what is going on you are only helping her, and if you don't, then your sister can end up staying in the wrong direction.

[mu5lim4h]

zajakulhair but brother amjad im not a brother im a muslim sister and thank u 4 ur advise
thank u all!
salam

[ehighwaycouk]

just do wadu , pray two nafal namaz and then pray to allah for her.

[mafaquem]

ASlaam ALekom ALL

I liked  MR Tayyab reply

JAZAK ALLAH

DO DUA for her and tell her.

ALLAH BLESS US ALL

[sunni-for-life]

Mis-using MSN

I begin in the name of Allah Most Gracious Most Merciful,

This post is specifically directed at MSN users. To be more precise I am referring to the chatting between non-mehram men and women that takes place on MSN. Or to be more exact, the chatting between men and women (who can marry) that takes place out of mere pleasure and which is not necessary.

It is a plain fact and you all must be aware of it. To speak to a non-mehram man or woman, in particular on MSN (without a necessity) is islamically not right. The reason why I have targetted the usage of MSN is because this has become the most common and easiest form of prohibited communication bewteen men and women that is taking place.

Having a conversation on MSN between a non-mehram man or woman (without a necessity) is zina. Yes this is such a strong word and you may object at such a word being used. But readers, this is no extreme way of putting it, it is a fact whether we approve of it or not. Chatting on MSN to a non-mehram for ones own pleasure is commiting zina of the hands, eyes as well as the mind. How? You may ask. Zina of the hands is commited when one types in a message to send to the person they are chatting to. Zina of the eyes is reading any message from the person and lastly zina of the mind is thinking about the person.

Readers, read carefully about how seriously zina affects ones imaan. It is said that whilst one is commiting zina, Imaan- the most precious thing a muslim can possess- is taken away from the person. God forbid, if one was to die in the state of commiting zina, what do you think would be the status of their imaan?

However let me stress, I do not wish to dishearten any of you. If you have used MSN or are using it for the purpose of chatting to guys/girls whom you are not suppose to, then this is your chance to repent and seek forgiveness. Allah is the most merciful and truly you shall be forgiven if your repentance is sincere. However, also remember that you must make the intention of not continuing with this sinful act in future.

To put it simply, this MSN chatting with non-mehram guys/girls (that takes place without a necessity) is not going to benefit us at all. Not in this world or the hereafter, but instead this sin is going to create the displeasure of Allah which will destroy any form of joy and satisfaction in this world and in the hereafter. Are we willing to sacrifice our personal, false pleasure for the pleasure of our Lord? Are we willing to sacrifice our temporary pleasure for eternal bliss in Paradise?

I shall end by saying that the next time you are confronted by a non-mehram man/woman on MSN whom you must not be chatting to then control your inner, worldly desires by not responding and instantly deleeting such a person from your list. Yes, it is hard and surely you will have to struggle for it but keep in mind that this sacrifice is solely for your own benefit.

Jazakallah for taking you time out to read, it now lies upon yourselves whether you choose to practice upon what has been said.

[wajiha-khan]

ASALM-O-AALIAKUM, PRAY FOR HER.............i'll be praying for her too...............do khatam of ............"YA SALAMU"............1 lakh times,minimum THOUSAND times daily.......inshallah you won't be able to finish it 1 LAKH times ......YOUR WORK WILL BE DONE ......YEH AAZMAYA HUA HAI ...........DO IT TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM........

[wajiha-khan]

OH! I FORGET TO TELL YOU THAT PLZ DON'T LEAVE IT WHEN YOUR WORK IS DONE COMPLETE IT   "1 LAKH TIMES"

[mu5lim4h]

wt is zinah?
is it an islamic word meaning its wrong
pleez tel me then i can explain 2 ma cuz sis properly
salam
jazakulahair

[halz87]

salaamz maheen sis
zinah is adultery and also one of da major sins in Islam
our beloved Prophet Muhammad has sed dat a person who commits adultery is 2b stoned to death
May Allah show ur cuz da str8 path InshaAllah Ameen

[mu5lim4h]

JAZAKULAHAIR,
              SIS HALIMA
SALAM

[wajiha-khan]

I THINK THAT YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN HELPING YOUR COUSIN SIS.....AS FOR YOU THIS IS NOT SOMETHING SERIOUS.....you would have taken immediate steps to get her on the right path....SO MANY SUGGESTIONS HAVE BEEN GIVEN TO YOU BY NOW.....or maybe you just want THE WORK TO BE DONE FOR YOU BY SOMEONE....i told you about the KHATAM 1 LAKH TIMES OF "YA ALLAHO YA SALAMO".....but you don't want to do such a difficult job INSTEAD....OK THEN LEAVE YOUR COUSIN THE WAY SHE IS HEADING TOWARDS.....

[azzy]

i think you realy need to read what you have written

do you know ilm ghaib and you realy think hes not helping

realy if you have nothing good to say then dont say anything

[azzy]

i think you realy need to read what you have written

do you know ilm ghaib and you realy think hes not helping

realy if you have nothing good to say then dont say anything

[wajiha-khan]

ASSALAM-O-ALAIKUM! ITHINK THAT IT'S YOUR WAY OF THINKING NOT MINE......she never replied to my suggestion then what should i assume .......if she was really interested in doing some difficult job she would have started doing it by now BUT NO REPLY FROM HER....AS I TOLD HER "YEH AAZMAYA HUA HAI"........her work will be done before she finishes it...ALLAH ALMIGHTY (is vazifay ki rehmat se rasta zaroor nikalta hai) humari suggestions say behtar janta hai(bashak) key kia karna hoga unki COZ SIS ko sahi raste pe lane ke liye to ALLAH KA SAHARA ZAYADA BEHTAR HAI HUMARI SUGGESTIONS SEY...........EVEN IF YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND THEN IT'S YOUR WAY OF THINKING........ANYWAYS....IM SORRY IF THAT HUIRTED YOU I NEVER MEANT THAT                   MUSLIM SIS

[Iqra]

Salam,

Sis Wajiha, i think when addressing others we all need to be a little less judgemental. We cannot just ASSUME that a person is doing or in this case is not doing as they say they are. We don't know of the intensions of anybody.

Sis Maheen, plz correct me if I'm wrong, but is only 14 years of age. And I personally think for a child of such a young age, subhanAllah is great that they at least have the intension of helping others and do have a sense of right and wrong!

Wasalaam