I second Bro MR's point being childern of Freshi's. I even had a debate with someone about this who was mocking all Freshi's and telling that how they come here and how they behave. I couldn't resist and put it nicely, "So who was your father, a freshi, what would you say about that".
The problem with us that when marriage life doesn't go according to plan we blame the other half and if the other half is from Pakistan than its simply, " Cultural Differences". Rather than looking at our ourselves, we blame them. I always tell people If they are Freshis and than you are BBCD ( British Born Confused Desi ). I know couple of marriage that didn't work not because of Freshi's but BBCD.
The problem I've with the couple who want "Noble" wife/husband is that why don't they look at themselves first before having these high demand. Why ask unfair things from your other half when you couldn't give the same back.
Marriage should not be a compromise between two people but a relationship based on love and affection.
But another big problem what we facing when parents came if they freshi that was 50 years back but now the 3rd generation and who get good education , they marrying with educated peoples from uk and back home they not having much problems .
Problems the ones having they not much educated by themselves but because they can speak english they think they better the girls and boys are coming from the deprived areas etc and I think that needs to stop , parents can realise that is not good because the couple cant hold a nice converasation and when they cant converse how can they live happy.
If they marry in uk parents cant converse with the daughter in law and son in law in detailed conversation so they want to bring girls and boys from pakistan and the other reason they want to make there relitives happy and engage there kids without thinking so if the parents give them free choice all will marry in uk and they face less problems .
another advice for who not much educated improve your education and marry with educated people and face less problems and if you spend life in halla gulla and then no choice no eduacted people want you and then you end up marrying from pakistan again and you have to face freshies.
But still education improved in pakistan as well and many happy marriages now when one person from uk and the other from pakistan.
Make a good decision at the start , find a nice person or ask parents to find one nice person then no regrets.One word No save you living miserable life in future be brave.