beautifulwayoflife, on 29 November 2011 - 09:51 PM, said:
Ah JazakAllah khair for your kind intentions brother...but I'm afraid it's not the money that's keeping me. I don't have a Mahram who can take me. My father cannot take me yet, nor can my brother who is much younger and I'm not married yet. What is a sister to do?
Brother remind me before you go please, and sister piara Madinah you too.
If your father cant take you go with any of your uncles chucha jaan mamon jaan etc because now many they go every year , you will find any mehram from the family and again as you mentioned your father looks after your grand father , ask him take 2 weeks break and take you .
May be any relitive volounter to help and look after him that time or ask your drs they must provide any care for your grandfather when you away.
I know we only can go when our call come but again we including me we make excuses in heart and awlays postpone ( not saying about you ) for little reasons etc and if it comes to go to pakistan we all plan and go and find the cover for the elders and the family kids, wives etc we always find a soloution if a shadi in pakistan or if some one ill or dies we go and say jana hi purna hay rishtadari hay etc but when it comes to go to madinah paak we always say cant go and every zimadari comes in our way and we say jub woh boliyen gay to jayen gay .
woh her waqat bolaty hain janay ka time rasta hamen khood talash kerna hay or masrofiyat or zaroroton ko ik turf ker kay pakka irada kerna hay kay we going , ask your father politely if he can ask any of the relitives to keep an eye on your dada jaan and go for 2 weeks and if he is that poorly your health department will cover if your father will say going away for 2 weeks .
even if you got any mamon and chucha jaan or tya jan and if they live in pakistan pay for them and take them with you as a mehram and go , meri dua hay kay nabi paak app kay liye asani peda kareen or app ko isi saal rabiunoor main hazri naseeb hoo .
any yanbi brother here can help sister if they live near her to lookafter her grandfather when she go to madinah paak.
and my request to my all brs take your wives and kids as soon as possible and go again and again and if your mothers not visited madinah paak please take them for hujj and umrah quick.
kion kay pesa kisi kaam ka nahe uger app kay piaroon nay madinah paak nahe dekha.