What a sad situation, i'm glad i'm independant and don't have to rely majorly on others for certain essentials of life! Kasme, you be dependant on someone and they think they own you, like you're their pet!
I think it's debase when a person can threaten to divorce his wife if he doesn't get his own way; much more common than you may think! Divorce and rape, two of mens weapons of torture and blackmail. I like my dad, but even he used to conjure up fake heart-attacks and palpitate claiming i'm sending his blood-pressure high!