[YaRasoolAllah786]

Mashallah subahnallah i am not offended n any way by waht u said !

May Allah curse me and put me in hell if i am only doing this out of my own need ! yes i pray ys i do tahajjud i recite abundants of Durood sharif but not for the guy astaghfirulla thats is for my love for allah u see i was v ill once and since i have changed and become closer to Allah in terms of worship i feel at EASE peace etc

If he doenst come back tht is the will of Allah i cannot fight that that is destined for me and if he does inshAllah then I will conticnue to pray rememver and cherish Allah swt and only Allah swt knows the trufh
I thank u for ur comment take care and remember me in ur dua to i am a mere sinner

I loveAllah and his rasool pbuh with all my heart.

Take care
salams

[sofiahk]

Assalam o Alaikum Sofi

Did u get what you were needing these dua's for?

[SAIF]

What guys are you talking about here KTL when you say,

"Let me tell you something about the nature of boys and men. There's no bigger kick that we like, than to have women falling at our feet and begging us to take them. It may have something to do with our alpha male needs and gratify's us in a way which not even an open car bonnet gratify's us, or a bench press competition."

The sister goes on to reply

"I havent called him for months now and i wont as i do have my own pride"

Are you both actually civilised, or are you still teenage kids.

The other half of the story is missing, guys dont just ignore girls for no reason.

If your mother and father didnt accept him due to him being of a different cast and told that to his parents, is he going to degrade himself even more by not listening to his parents and chasing you. i dont think so, i take my mother of a higher importance then anyone who would be racist and tell my mother to go away because they are of a different caste.

Im afraid if you want him back there is only one thing you can do.

Ask your mother to go their sons house and apologize to his mother, and say im sorry but my daughter loves your son so can we still get them married.

That should do.

 

[Sunni786Soldier]

Asslamualaikum

I am sorry, but the advice given on this thread has been AWFUL. Actually putting it politely beyond awful.  Sister has come here for advice from muslim brothers and sisters - emphasis being on muslim.  Pretty disappointing.  Many people have explained that guys are like this others argue guys are like that, lol, maybe your correct guys are like this and that, but what are muslim guys like?  then others come and say get your mum to apologise lol, this is all ironic.

I am truly disappointed by the advise given by majority. If I was a non muslim or najdi/khwariji looking in at this forum I would be laughing my head of, and as a sunni I am hanging my head in shame. That is all I have to say on the issue. I have a dark past, so I am not one to talk I know. I am sure the intelligent amongst you will see what I mean.

Many apologies if I have offended anyone. 

May Allah swt guide us all.

NB: my concern and comments were directed to the people who responding not the questioner.  As the questioner was looking for guidance and had the strength to come to muslims for support and CORRECT advice, which I feel was not given and few comments were too sarchy for my liking. Mocking someone who comes to you for support and guidance is unacceptable.  Were muslims, we need to behave like muslims too.

[Ashadieeyah]

sister sofi i undertand u totally

[Help-me]

Allahumma layyin qalbi fulan binti fulan kama layyintil hadidi li sayyidina Da'ud alayhis 'salam'

Where it stated 'fulan ibn-e-fulan', you must say the name of the person involved, and her/his mothers name (for example if the boys' name is Saad and his mothers name is Asma, you will say "Saad ibn-e-Asma"... okey?..).
This wazifa is very effective, and melts hearts, just as lead was molten for the Prophet Da'ud alayhis 'salam.

ASALAMOLAIKUM MUJHE SAHI TARHA SAMAJH NEHI AI KHE AAP KHA MATLABH KYA HAI? MERI BHI YEHI SAME PROBLEM HAI, AND I ALSO WANT TO READ THIS WAZIFA. CAN YOU PLEASE TELL ME EXACTLY HOW TO READ IT? FOR EXAMPLE IF THE BOY'S NAME IS OMAR AND HIS MOTHERS NAME IS TAHIRA, HOW SHOLUD I READ IT? PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME, MAY ALLAH GIVE YOU ALL THE HAPPINESS PLEASE HELP ME

[ceyline]

please tell me a dua to get back my love. he loved me initially. but later he rejected me without a reason. he thinks we are not compatible. i dont beleive in such reasons which he is giving me. allah knows how much he wanted me and on the right time he rejected me. please give me a dua to get back his attention. i want to marry him and be happy. i cant think beyond him. i cant think of marrying some other guy. please help anyone. its a life and deaht question for me. please pity on my cpondition and help me in this problme. may allah showers his blessing on everyone.

[huwi]

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malaikah (06.11.2008)

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This was given to me by an imam..AND IT WORKS SOOOOO GOOOOD

Try to recite the following du'a at least 100 times a day:

'Allahumma layyin qalbi fulan binti fulan kama layyintil hadidi li sayyidina Da'ud alayhis 'salam'

Where it stated 'fulan ibn-e-fulan', you must say the name of the person involved, and her/his mothers name (for example if the boys' name is Saad and his mothers name is Asma, you will say "Saad ibn-e-Asma"... okey?..).
This wazifa is very effective, and melts hearts, just as lead was molten for the Prophet Da'ud alayhis 'salam.


and its very good if u read darood sharif in the beginning and in the end of this dua...it helps more
AND YOU HAVE TO DO IT WITH WUZUU, EVEN A LITTLE NAPAKI CAN LEAD TO SIDE EFFECTS!!!!!
i was in the same situation as you...he was a very stone cold person..
but he dies for me now and we r even getting married soon inshAllah hehe

don't you have this dua in arabic? and for how long do you have to recite it?

[iqbal-e-haidri]

Salaam.

I cant seem to find this dua written in Arabic, and have no idea where it has come from. Please could anyone tell me where to get arabic version AND tell me where it has been sourced from?

ALSO Would l need ijazat to recite this dua?

iqbal-e-haider

[sana456]

hav i the permission to recite this wazaif ?

[onlynazu]

Salamzz,

I have also been trying the same to find the verses in Arabic but couldnt find. I want it for the same purpose. Kindly, if anyone knows do tell me!
Thanx

[zamirafzal]

Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem
Assalaamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa BarakaatuhuWazaif To Get Your Displeased Spouse Back

Recite 30 times verse 129 of al Bara-at during the Friday night, keeping in mind the name of the displeased spouse. Inshallah, there will be harmony between the two spouses again.




But if they turn away, say: “Allah suffices me. There is no god but He. On Him do I rely, and He is the Lord of the great throne.”

FA-IN TAWALLAW FAQUL H'ASBIYALLAAHU LAAA ILAAHA ILLAA HUW A'LAYHI TAWAKKALTU WA HUWA RABBUL A'RSHIL A'Z'EEM

 

mention the name of the spouse with his/ hers mother's name

O my Allah, You are (my) Lord, be sufficient for me to make her heart yield to me and submit to me in (love and affection).

ALLAAHUMMA ANTA YAA RABBI 'ASBEE A'LAA (mention the name of the spouse with his/ hers mother's name) QA-T'IF QALBAHAA A'LAYYA WA D'ALLIHAA LEE

[moeeza_780]

i am also in the same situation he left me without any reason he even stopped talking with me i cant live without him i really love him so much i cant think abt another guy plz tell me wazifa

[moeeza_780]

salam,

      dear brothers and sisters plz tell me any wazifa to get my luv back i really loved him alot he is a stone cold person initially he loves me now i dont know what has happened he even not talk to me i cant thin abt another guy kindly tell me any wazifa can i read the dua of hazrat daud . do i have permision to read it kindly post me that dua in english version or arabic if it is available in arabic than its much better do reply me n post me wazifa ... n tell me the time when to read that dua n how many times that it bcomes more effective in no tym do post me that dua wa8ing anxiously ...

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[imamuna]

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zohal (13.05.2010)

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salam,

      dear brothers and sisters plz tell me any wazifa to get my luv back i really loved him alot he is a stone cold person initially he loves me now i dont know what has happened he even not talk to me i cant thin abt another guy kindly tell me any wazifa can i read the dua of hazrat daud . do i have permision to read it kindly post me that dua in english version or arabic if it is available in arabic than its much better do reply me n post me wazifa ... n tell me the time when to read that dua n how many times that it bcomes more effective in no tym do post me that dua wa8ing anxiously ...

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What do you know about love?

[HUSSAIN_B]

Salaam Brothers and Sisters,

I have just joined the site after reading some of the topic and MashAllah I am impressed by the comments and responce thats been given. I myself am under alot of stress and upset please do dua for me as I am helpless. I have fallen in love with a guy and we both wished to marry InshAllah but things have now taken a turn and we have lost contact. He lives in Pakistan and invited me to meet his family there I went but at the airport my family turned up and i left with them. I got really ill there and never managed to see him. After 1 week i came back as he said and tried to meet in the UK as my brother wanted to meet him, however things changed he turned on me and said that he cant continue to be with me as my parents arent agreeing to the shaddi due to cast differences he said he tried for me to meet his family and i screwed up... Now we have lost touch over 1 week he mailed me saying he is no longer in love and that his family are angry with him. I am in touch with a pher and he advised that the guy is confused about shaddi but loves me alot, he told me to loose touch and the guy will come back... Is there any dua for me that can help me please.... Thanks xx

[HUSSAIN_B]

i need duas to get my love back he is confused as of the circumstances please help.

[harun7865]

Salaam,

brother KTL's initial response at the beginning of this thread is spot on, harsh but that is the reality. You need to detach yourself from this desperate situation and make decisions based on choice and freedom not desperation. The fact that he is easily able to walk away should surely raise the alarm bells. May Allah swt guide you and keep you safe insha'Allah.

[Luhif]

16,280 ! 

[Imran.]

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Luhif (25.06.2010)

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16,280 ! 

Well maybe we have alot of failed ashiqs on here?