Try to recite the following du'a at least 100 times a day:
'Allahumma layyin qalbi fulan binti fulan kama layyintil hadidi li sayyidina Da'ud alayhis 'salam'
Where it stated 'fulan ibn-e-fulan', you must say the name of the person involved, and her/his mothers name (for example if the boys' name is Saad and his mothers name is Asma, you will say "Saad ibn-e-Asma"... okey?..).
This wazifa is very effective, and melts hearts, just as lead was molten for the Prophet Da'ud alayhis 'salam.<br style="mso-special-character: line-break">
and its very good if u read darood sharif in the beginning and in the end of this dua...it helps more i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif
AND YOU HAVE TO DO IT WITH WUZUU, EVEN A LITTLE NAPAKI CAN LEAD TO SIDE EFFECTS!!!!!
i was in the same situation as you...he was a very stone cold person..
but he dies for me now and we r even getting married soon inshAllah hehe i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif
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r u there sister.. i want to study this do i need any permission 4 it ??