zenahs (02.07.2009)
Aslaam walaykum brothers and sisters I am fed up dont feel like doing anything I have problems after one another.
Please do a speacial dua for me that
I find a job, I become a five time namazi, I do good things, all my illnesses go away, I have good friends, relatives, neighbours and I come intouch with good people,
Please do dua for me whichever probles I have and my dua in my heart comes true please help this helpless brother, I pray to allah that everyones dua comes true
Jazak allah
Allah hafiz and sorry if I have done or said anything wrong thank you
Would you like fries with that? Go large for an extra 30p?
I'm sorry, but you're approach is completely wishful, hoping for a utopia. Each and every single one of your wants is highly controllable, it's a part of your domain and within your power.
The Italian matmatician had the theory of 'ratios of life' It's the pareto principle, known as the 80/20 ratio. This is to say that, in 80% of your life, you only have 20% of control and in 20% of your life, you have 80% of control. Always concentrate on that part of your life that which you have control over. Ocourse, the ratio is a guideline, you can flex it as and when you see fit.
This is to say, concentrate on the 20% that you have within your control.
Don't expect the dua to do 100% of it, let's say for arguments sake, dua only toils for 50% of the problem, this still leaves 50% of toil that you have to put your back into. Concentrate on your 50%, look for a job, make yourself attractive to employers, if you are ill, then no problem, do the half that you can, excercise daily, have a healthy food intake. Don't want good friends, neighbours etc but be the good friend, be the good neighbour and this will hopefully rub off onto other people around you.
Remember, Quran Reciter is giving you 50% dua, KTL is awarding you 50% control, use it man. Put your back into it.